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Note: article from Evansville Courier and Press 3/10/08

I get many e-mails from frustrated readers asking how on earth they are supposed to fit exercise into their already busy lives. Many explain that gym memberships are not in their budget. Some say they just don’t have the time to dedicate to regular exercise because of work hours or other “more important” life commitments. Others say they can’t find a form of exercise they like or are physically capable of doing regularly, although I’m not sure I buy either of those.

I could tell them to think of solutions — get up earlier, walk at lunch or stop watching so much TV so they can find the time. But most people already know this, yet still can’t seem to get motivated to get up and move more often.

So instead, how about I give you a whole list of fun, new and super-healthy activities that you can do right here in the Tri-State? Now, keep in mind that you need to make a deficit of only 500 calories a day to lose 1 pound each week. So adding a couple of these to your weekly agenda could help you shed some pounds and create new healthy habits at the same time:

Saturday — Run of Luck 7K Run/Walk and Wee Folks Dash. Of all the race events in the Tri-State each year, this one is by far the most family-friendly — and it’s darn fun to boot. Dress up in your best St. Patrick’s Day attire and walk, jog or run your way to better health while supporting the Easter Seals Rehabilitation Center. After the event enjoy all the activities: crafts, Celtic music, a silent auction, food, drinks and the chance to win some awesome prizes.

Pick up a registration form at most local gyms or go to www.runofluck7k.com for all the details.

March 29 — Guided hike at Garden of the Gods. Put your hiking shoes on and join Top Spot Outdoors on a guided hike in Southern Illinois. And believe me, you’ll be having so much fun that you won’t even know you’re burning more than 443 calories per hour. Now, that’s my kind of exercise.

For more information on guided hiking excursions offered by Top Spot, call 476-8677 or go to www.topspotoutdoors.com.

April through November — Canoe Evansville’s Guided Tour of Pigeon Creek. Canoeing burns 258 calories per hour. And the best part is that it’s something that young and old, fit and “working on it” can do, plus it’s very affordable — only $15 for a three-hour quick-start class. Go to www.wesselmannaturesociety.org for class details and more information.

April 19 — Enjoy a beautiful walk (or run) around the Evansville State Hospital grounds to benefit the American Cancer Society. This two-mile run and relay or one-mile walk is sponsored by Colon Screening for Life and is perfect for individuals of any ability and fitness level. They even have a free kids’ dash. This is a great race for beginners, so set a goal to walk a little each day and you’ll be ready for this one in no time.

For more information, go to www.colonscreeningforlife.com.

Ideas for any time:

- Shake your booty and burn more than 332 calories per hour with the Evansville Swing Bop Club at The Icon. Those 21 and older can learn swing dancing for only $2 on specially scheduled evenings. Go to www.dancecrafters.com for more information on all the ballroom dance classes.

- Play catch with your kids and burn 185 calories per hour.

- Get your hands dirty and do yardwork. You’ll burn more than 369 calories per hour.

(All calorie calculations are for a 155-pound person for 60 minutes. To calculate your own calories burned for each activity, go to www.self.com/fitness/activity/calculators.)

Stop thinking that you must force yourself to endure long hours performing torturous exercises that you hate to do. Remember, you’re in this healthy living thing for the long haul, so cut this list out and place it on your fridge as a reminder.

Before you know it, you’ll flip that healthy lifestyle switch and get moving (and burning) your way to a fitter and happier new you.

NOTE: This is from my bi-wekly article in the Evansville Courier and Press BUT Anyone…Anywhere can use this info. Americans in general are in BIG trouble and need a wake up call! Enjoy… 

I have lived in many wonderful cities — Dallas, Santa Monica, Hollywood — but there’s something about good ol’ Evansville you just can’t replace. I have wracked my brain trying to pinpoint what makes my corn-fed friends so much friendlier and why I choose to live here compared with the excitement I used to experience in the bigger cities.

In the end, I always come back to the people. Evansville to me is family. People here are focused on family, friendships and living a “good life” away from the crazy life that the larger cities bring. However, there is something we miss that could impede that quest for a good life.

We are so busy working hard for our families, running here and there trying to raise well-rounded kids, worrying about new stadiums and parks that we are losing sight of the one thing that allows us to enjoy it all — our health.

Indiana has an adult obesity rate of 26.8 percent, ranking it the ninth heaviest in the nation, according to a 2004-2006 study by the Trust for America’s Health. Even scarier is that our childhood obesity rates aren’t much better. Can you say, “Monkey see, monkey do”?

My Evansville-area friends, you simply must give yourself a reality check and ask some hard questions:

-Are you at a healthy weight?

-Are your blood pressure and cholesterol rates within the normal ranges?

-Are you raising your children to make healthy choices? Do they even know what healthy choices are?

If you answered “no” to any of these, you need to take a long hard look at what your future, and your family’s future, will look like if you don’t make some changes.

I don’t say this to scare you, but maybe that’s what you need. It’s what I call “a big fat kick in the pants to healthier choices.” We have this mentality of “oh, it’s only one Big Mac” or “it’s just a Pop-Tart — they are kids, you know.”

Come on — take a look around next time you’re at the mall. I think you’ll realize that those Big Macs and Pop-Tarts are adding up.

We are getting too comfortable in our laid-back Midwestern lifestyle. If we don’t do something, we will continue to climb that national obesity scale, and, folks, Hoosiers are better than that. We are not lazy people, but the numbers are indicating something a little different.

Let’s make some healthy changes together and help Indiana slide down the obesity scale. How? It all starts with choices.

You must choose to change. To help you here are a few great resources:

-I challenge you to go to www.in.gov/inshape/ and take a look at Gov. Mitch Daniels’ In Shape Indiana program. This is a top-notch free resource. Learn how to quit smoking, eat healthy and exercise, regardless of whether you are 8 or 80 years old. There’s also a way for you to e-mail questions to the site’s nutritionists and personal trainers.

-At www.sparkpeople.com you will find healthy living information as well as a support community. You can sign up for daily e-mails and join online support groups in the Evansville area.

-Need healthy recipe information? Look up www.foodfit.com for meal ideas.

-If you still have questions, come by my Web site, www.lifechanginghealthysolutions.com, and submit your questions. I would be honored to help my fellow Hoosiers and to see that No. 9 obesity ranking plummet.

As a personal trainer and healthy living expert, I make it a point to never talk to my clients about my own personal health problems. Those of us in the health and fitness industry are supposed to be super-healthy at all times and never have a down day, right?  

Look - kids get sick, we all have busy schedules, and many of us have health battles (some much more serious than mine). Life’s crud happens! It’s up to you to do everything within your power to create the healthiest battleground possible. Take control by taking action – by exercising and eating healthy. That way, when life places one of those nasty, mystery cream filled bombs in your path you can simply spit it out in the trash and get back on your happy and healthy way!

I have never been one to give up easily. I think it’s a combo of the hard work ethic my parents instilled in me and good ol’ ‘I am woman…there’s nothing I can’t do’ that is my personal motto.

Well, I may have met my match! I stink at skiing!

That’s right…skiing may just be the stinkin’ hardest thing I have tackled in recent years. I don’t know if it’s the fact that I could break my neck speeding downhill, out of control on two small, narrow strips of fiberglass. Or if it’s the frustration of having 3 year olds waving as they effortlessly pass me on the way down the run. Geeze.

Truth be known I have never been a sports player or all that great at taking instruction when learning something new. (Tennis didn’t go all that well for me either…but I’ll keep trying). However, this annual ski trip is important to me. It’s the one time of year we get to take time off away from the kids and enjoy the company of a couple who we consider to be the best friends ever. So learning to ski is a must.

I could just throw in the towel, give into my fears and say ‘the heck with it’ and stay in the lodge sipping on cocoa. Nah…not my style. Nope, I’m going to keep at it. Actually, this year as I lie, upside down, snow packed into my goggles and skis crossed from a very ungraceful wipeout I couldn’t help but compare it to many of the challenges we face in life.

We want to better our career so we’ll educate ourselves to get a better job. We have a illness then we go to the doctor to get to the bottom of it and treat it so it goes away. It’s really the same with weight loss and working towards a healthier lifestyle.

So many times we expect to just eat a few health meals and exercise when it’s convenient and then get angry and frustrated when we don’t see results. Truth is weight loss is just like skiing. You aren’t just going to jump on and immediately know how what to do. It’s a learning process. YOU WILL FALL DOWN! And you will eat snow from time to time. You may even need lessons on exactly how to eat, exercise and maybe even an istructor to really get you flying downhill with grace and ease.

So, don’t quit and keep on working at all this healthy living stuff. With consistency and persistence YOU WILL conquer this thing. For me, well, I’m definitely going to sign up for lessons next year. I obviously am not a natural and I’m humble enough to admit when I stink at something. But one thing is for sure…they have their work cut out for them. LOL

If weight loss for you is like skiing for me (you stink at it-lol) then get yourself a lesson…check out my Healthy Grocery Store Tour. It could be the thing that allows YOU to speed down the mountain and finally conquer this healthy lifestyle thing once and for all.

Good luck and…break a leg.

Darlene

I have to admit I can be an “uncool” parent at times, at least in my 8-year-old son’s eyes. You see, we have always been an anti-video game family. When all the neighborhood kids were getting their PlayStations and Game Cubes, I was buying our son a baseball glove, tennis racket and Rollerblades.

Instead of spending $50 on the latest game for these zombie-creating machines, I was spending that cash on swim and drum lessons. I just couldn’t see encouraging my child to sit and not move for hours on end.

All of this changed on Christmas. We purchased our first family video game. Hold on a second — don’t get smug thinking I’ve given in to one of society’s unhealthy habits. Let me tell you what kind of video game. We purchased a Wii (pronounced “we”).

Heard of it? If you haven’t, it could be the one thing that gets your kiddos (and you, too) movin’ like never before.

The Nintendo Wii is the video game I have been longing for. No more kids parked in front of TVs for hours on end. With the Wii you have to stand, move, punch, jump and do all sorts of goofy moves in order to beat your opponents.

Can I just tell you how sore I was the day after playing boxing and tennis for the first time? All from a video game!

The Wii is an interactive video game that could be a key player in fighting our nation’s childhood obesity epidemic. Of course, it’s no substitute for good old exercise, but I have to admit that the Wii games are a pretty fun way for adults and children to burn a few extra calories.

The New York Times reports that in a recent British study of six boys and five girls ages 13 to 15, all team athletes who played video games at least two hours a week benefited greatly when moving from a stationary game such as Xbox to the more active Wii.

The study used monitoring devices that measured the children’s energy expenditure at rest and as they did 15-minute sessions with “Project Gotham Racing 3,” a sedentary Xbox game, and the active Wii versions of bowling, tennis and boxing.

At rest, the children burned an average of about 72 calories per hour. Playing the Xbox game increased the average to 107. Wii tennis consumed 179 calories per hour, and Wii boxing 174 — both significant increases over the sedentary Xbox game. But keep in mind that an actual game of doubles tennis in the real world burns about 318 calories per hour, and punching a boxing bag burns 382.

These new virtual exercise machines could be a solution for parents and schools concerned about the inactivity and rising weight of their children and teens. An added benefit: Our family discovered that playing and laughing together was something we just weren’t doing enough of.

I never thought I would be encouraging my friends, family and clients to go out and get a video game, but in this case it could be a way to get a sedentary child moving and to insert a bit of healthy family fun time into our busy lives.

In my book there is no substitute for real exercise and sports, since both improve health and encourage social interaction. But you may consider getting rid of most of your PlayStation and Xbox games, and get yourself a Wii. The technology is only going to get better, and as the companies catch on to the parents’ desire for more interactive games, I think these babies are going to get healthier and healthier. Just you wait and see. Wii love it!

I have a love-hate relationship with New Year’s resolutions. On one hand, anything that causes us to take a moment to seriously reflect on where we’re headed in life is a good and valuable thing to do. The end of the year is a perfect time to take an honest look at the status of our health, spiritual life, financial status, family relationships or any other major aspect of life that will determine much of our long-term happiness.

But as we all know, resolutions can also be a not-so-serious attempt at healthy and positive changes (changes that we never really intended on keeping in the first place). Studies have found that 60 percent of people who set a New Year’s goal give up on it within three months. So what does take to be in that ever desirable 40 percent club?Here are some key strategies to make your new habit stick:

Have a positive attitude — By focusing on the “I wills” instead of the “will nots,” you put yourself in the right mental attitude for successful change. If you remind yourself of all the things you shouldn’t do or can’t do, it makes your effort a negative experience, which is not what you want to invite into your life.I recommend that you write a few of your “I wills” on a sticky note and post them on your fridge and car dashboard, in your wallet and on your computer monitor. This keeps the positive change ahead of you at the forefront of your mind and in focus throughout your day. When moments of weakness strike, you will be armed with a clear vision of what you want to accomplish, and that negative thought will be busted before it has a chance to ruin your new, healthy quest.

Gain control through learning — If weight loss is your goal, learn everything you can about healthy eating and exercise. Simply taking a diet pill or jumping on a fad diet is not going to teach you to live a healthier lifestyle or keep that weight off for a lifetime. There are many great online resources available to help educate you on the ins and outs of healthy eating and exercise.www.fitday.com — a free online diet journal and calorie counting tool.

www.foodnetwork.com — go to the healthy eating section for great recipes.

www.eatright.org — American Dietetic Association Web site that has great references and articles.

www.prevention.com — everything you want to know about exercise and healthy living.

www.lifechanginghealthysolutions.com — this is my own site. I have free healthy living information for you there.

Keep your eyes on the prize — It’s one thing to want to lose weight, but don’t make that your entire focus. Also remind yourself that if you lost weight you’d lower your risk of heart disease, diabetes and hypertension. You’d also increase your energy, boost your confidence, feel more attractive and fit easily into your clothes.If your goal is to stop smoking, you can add reducing your risk of lung cancer and heart attack to your list — not to mention that you will no longer have “smoker’s breath” (yuck!), your clothes won’t stink like smoke (you might not be aware of the smell the smoke in your clothes, but everyone around you notices — trust me) and you’ll save money by not having to buy cigarettes anymore.

Now, that’s what I call a life-changing prize.

 (this is the 11/19 unedited version of my bi-weekly article in the Evansville Courier & Press)

 I love Thanksgiving. For me, it’s much better than Christmas due to the fact that the holiday season hussle, bussle and stress haven’t taken over my already crazy life. Nope, Thanksgiving is family time and with that comes mountains of food that could feed an army (or in my families case a small third world country).  As much as I love all the wonderful holiday fare I must say I don’t love the after effects which usually include being sprawled out on the sofa, top pant button undone, reeling in some sort of turkey day triptipan coma. I think I can get an amen to that. 

Did you know that the average Turkey Day meal is around 3000 calories ( the average daily intake is 2000 calories!). Think I’m exaggerating? Check out http://walking.about.com/library/cal/blthanksgivingcalories.htm and you can calculate exactly what damage you might do this Thanksgiving. Interesting but a bit scary. According to Cedric Bryant, American Council on Exercise chief exercise physiologist, “A 160 lb. person would have to run at a moderate pace for four hours, swim for five hours or walk 30 miles to burn off a 3,000-calorie Thanksgiving Day meal.” I don’t know about you but I have better things to do on Thanksgiving than spend 4-5 hours exercising. Dr. Bryant goes on to say, “Many people don’t just stop at the meal.  Snacking throughout the day can lead up to a total caloric intake of 4,500.” The moral of this story? Show a little control at the table this year and consider offering a few healthy options for your loved ones.  

Before you all get your panties in a wad and leave me ugly messages about poo-pooing on a holiday (I remember you fall festival people), let me just say, I want you to enjoy this wonderful day and all the joys it brings. I just think that in this day and age where two out of three Americans are overweight we should be a bit more mindful of how much we are eating, even on holidays. So, to help you create a bit more “healthy” Thanksgiving tradition I thought I would throw out a few ideas that are tasty and good for you to boot. Pumpkin- It’s not just for pumpkin pie y’all. Use pumpkin (or sweet potatoes) instead of plain white potatoes when making your mashed potatoes and gravy. You’ll be adding a highly nutritious vegetable, rich in antioxidants, fiber and vitamins, always a good thing. Plus it will be a nice and colorful surprise for your family and friends. Or make this quick and easy pumpkin soup: combine cubes of fresh pumpkin (or use canned unsweetened pumpkin) with chopped onion, clove of garlic, and low fat/sodium chicken broth. Cook until tender and then puree until smooth. Add a little cinnamon or nutmeg to really capture the Thanksgiving spirit. 

Cranberries- Now, I don’t know about you but every year my mom plops down a can of cranberry sauce (usually still I the can shape) and every year she is the only one who eats it. Why not give this fruit that cleanses and purifies the body its due respects.  Besides this time of year we can all benefit from this yummy berry which is full of antioxidants that strengthen the immune system and have been shown to reduce the risk of some types of cancers and other chronic diseases. My favorite way to add spice to this usually boring lump of a dish is to add chopped apples, raisins, orange zest and holiday spices. For great ideas and healthy recipes go to www.oceanspray.com.  When it comes to Thanksgiving the healthiest thing you can do for your family is to shift the focus from food to family. Enjoy conversation and your loved ones but be mindful of just how much Thanksgiving vittles you are taking in. I don’t want to poo on your Thanksgiving dreams but with obesity percentages at an all time high (and getting higher) I think we all need to be mindful, even on Thanksgiving.  This time of year we tend to obsess over food and that’s not healthy in any season.  Slow down, have a little of your favorites but don’t over do it and put your focus on family this Thanksgiving. I promise you it’s a healthy move that you’ll never regret. Happy Thanksgiving friends.

I often preach about how as parents we need to put our foot down more when it comes to what our children are eating and drinking. I feel that most parents and grandparents (you guys are particularly bad about giving the kids too much junk) are in the dark when it comes to knowing just how much caffeine, sugar and chemicals that their children take in on a daily basis. Many just let the kids grab what they want, when they want then act all surprised when they end up with an overweight child, a child with health issues or severe cavities.Let me prove my point to you…

Take 9 year old Eddy (name changed so that my friends and family won’t ditch me for talking about them-LOL). Eddy is my son’s friend that comes over from time to time. He has some serious “hyper-tendencies” and I believe takes medication daily to control his “condition” (I can go on about that one also but another day).

Given, we are a healthy household and I don’t keep the typical kid junk foods around but would you believe this kids mother sent him over with a bag full of junk food because she “just knew he wouldn’t eat my food”. You may think I’m exaggerating but his bag contained, fruit gummies, cheese crackers, a candy bar, Pop-Tart sticks and a Mt. Dew.

Talk about keeping a kid held back and never trying anything new. Because I find how parents feed their children incredibly interesting, I began to ask “Eddy” what kind of foods he eats and likes. First of all he explained he hates water and milk and refuses to drink anything but soda and Kool-aid Jammers. He also never eats a single vegetable (which he said with a very proud smile) and will only eat hot dogs and chicken nuggets. He said he hates eating breakfast and if he eats anything it’s a donut or Pop-Tart. And might I add I always see this kid with candy in hand.

I asked him what his favorite fruit was….long pause…(his brain a workin’ hard here)…he finally said to me “what’s a fruit again?” Now I’m sure he knew what fruit was but he couldn’t think of a single one that he liked to eat. NOT ONE! (He said his mom doesn;t keep fruit around). I went through the list banana…nope, too mushy….apple…nope, don’t like the skin…orange, “yuck”…COME ON! I couldn’t believe it!

Later I very cautiously spoke with his mother and she explained that she tries to get him to eat better but he won’t try anything. I explained she really gives him no reason to because she will turn around and give him the other stuff the second he won’t eat the healthy stuff. Plus, she and her husband make no attempts to eat all that healthy so why should “Eddy”. Just doesn’t work that way.

1) You must make the decision as a family to eat and live healthier. Get rid of some (yes, I said some…it is a process ya know) of the unhealthy things, limit how much unhealthy/junk food you and your family eat or just stop buying it all together (my preference).  

2) Put some effort into finding healthier recipes you all like, snacks that are tasty but not full of crud and sugar and just make this whole healthy thing a new adventure instead of a punishment or chore. You didn’t learn to walk overnight and learning to shop, cook and eat healthy doesn’y happen overnight either.

Solutions are there…you first need to be willing to make the changes as a parent…then your kids are more likely to accept and follow. If you aren’t doing the deal then why should they? Also, get the kids involved in cooking and preparing healthier foods. They will be more likely to eat the food they cook then be forced to eat something YOU say is “good” for them. I do this often when I want my kids to try a new recipe or food.

Just Remember, YOU ARE THE PARENT! YOU CALL THE SHOTS! PERIOD!

Look, I know that you can’t be there all the time and kids will trade their carrots for a ding-dong any day BUT you can show them how to make better choices and grow their taste buds for healthier foods simply by walking the walk at home and providing tasty alternatives to the usual chips, soda and sweets. Yes, you will have to do some work and start showing them by WALKING the WALK YOURSELF but aren’t your kiddo worth it?

I often get a lot of flack from moms when I say “buy the healthy stuff and don’t have the other junk around” (except as an occasional treat). I feel that when they get hungry enough they will at least try your Whole Wheat Spaghetti and Pita Pizza, English Melts, Hi-Protein Pancakes or Sunrise Shake (all of which you can learn about in my Healthy Grocery Store Tour Kit). They aren’t going to starve, I promise you. If you are consistently encouraging them to make better choices AND explaining why the other junk is bad for them they will take you up on SOME (I’m not that unrealistic) of the new healthier options you are making available to them. 

My point is very simple today, take a good hard look at whether or not you are really giving your kids opportunities to be healthy or if YOU are the reason they are making the poor choices in the first place. I know that’s kind of a crappy thing to say but they don’t buy the groceries…you do. What you expose and teach them when they are little will set the stage for the rest of their lives.Hang in there parents and grandparents! There is a wealth of info out there to help you. Keep your eyes peeled for healthy foods and recipes. Always be willing to try new stuff and the little guys will see that and catch on, it may take a bit, but they will eventually come around.

Raising healthy kiddos is hard these days but IT IS POSSIBLE, with effort and consistency!Check out my main page and you will see many resources I have available for you. Recipes, exercises, articles, my newsletter and Healthy Grocery Store Tour DVD. Feel free to post your feeling and thought below (good or bad). We can all learn from each other. Take care and raise those kiddos healthy…there’s no telling what they will achieve!

Darlene

It starts on Halloween and doesn’t stop until New Years…the demise of our healthy diet and lifestyle. Every year we go into the holidays with good intentions and come out with an extra 5-10 pounds and some serious doubts to whether or not we will ever get the weight off and keep it off.

You should start with this question…are you willing to give a little here and there and show a bit of self-restraint this holiday season in order to keep from ending up with belly that resembles Santa? If your attitude is to go hog wild and just “diet” come the New Year, well, good luck with that. However, if you want to get through this season with as little damage as possible, while still enjoying the holidays, then start with these 5 easy strategies:

1) PLAN! Get a calendar and write in all parties and events immediately as you are informed of them. Also write in planned shopping days or family functions…down to your kids sport or music practices and programs. Now, pencil in 5 times each week where you can do some form of exercise. Yes, I said 5 (3 at the least). So if you know you have a party on a certain evening, plan to exercise that morning before work or walk at lunch instead. When you don’t plan your workouts the busy season will get the best of you and exercise will be the first thing you cut out. Remember, all this exercise is THE KEY to burning off the excess fat and calories you will most certainly be taking in. Just think about how many extra candy dishes, baked goods, food gifts, etc. that float around this time of year.

2) Clean House! If you have a party get ride of the non-healthy foods ASAP! Throw out ALL the seasonal treats, chips, cheese balls, sweets or other high calorie and high fat foods right after the party (or simply send EVERYTHING home with your guests). That’s right, throw them out! If the “bad” food is not sitting in your kitchen you won’t be tempted to eat it!
3) Don’t go to that party hungry! Have a half of a turkey sandwich, spoon full of natural peanut butter, handful of nuts or a piece of fruit before that party, especially the parties that start late in the evening. If you go to a party starving you will most certainly overindulge on food and drink, not so good for the ol’waistline.

4) Don’t stuff yourself! If you are at a holiday dinner and don’t want to overindulge I have a fool proof way of keeping yourself from overeating. (oh, and by the way, there is NO rule that says you have to eat everything on your plate.) Discretely shake lots of salt all over your food when you find yourself starting to feel the slightest bit full. It will appear you are still joining in on the fun, socializing with plate in hand, but that little trick will keep you from continuing to eat when you are already full and satisfied.

5) Choose Wisely. Look, I’m not about to tell you to skip all of your favorite holiday foods. What I will say is portion control! Have a little of your favorites but NOT a lot. Fill up on the turkey (breast only, no skin), watch those casseroles and lean heavier on vegetables that are au natural, watch the high fat sauces and gravies, limit alcohol and drink lots of water!

This has been a tough week in the Nicholson household. Not only have Barry (my husband, marketing director, business partner and best friend) and I been bombarded with work launching my cool new healthy living quiz (www-dietplans.info) and free telewebinar: “The Unadulterated Truth About Losing Weight and Keeping It Off For Good: What Thin, Healthy People Know About Dieting That Yo-Yo Dieters Will Never Know” (take the quiz and you can set in on the webinar for free).

Ialso have 3 article deadlines for Friday, my son gets out of school early today and tomorrow, a parent teacher conference today, Spencer has drum lessons, an exercise class to teach tonight…Oh, and we have also had a sick kiddo in the house to boot. A 4 year old sick kiddo! Yikes!

Everything in me wants to throw cooking dinner and exercising down the drain BUT I know that’s not going to do anyone, any good if I do that, especially me. I get grumpy, feel sluggish, I beat my self up and I get much less done when I stop taking care of me. When I keep on track I get more accomplished with my work and writing, I’m a much less stressed out mom and it keeps my immune system up to fight off the crud going around the house.

Why am I telling you all this? BECAUSE LIFE’S CRAP HAPPENS…deal with it! This time of year, Halloween through New Years, we are just looking for reasons to skip workouts and pick up fast food for dinner. Don’t do it! Stay strong and get rid of that darn “stink’in think’in” that keeps you from finding solutions to life’s challenges. This “life crap” and time issue is the number one problem I see when clients struggle with living that healthy lifestyle I preach about so often. You need to find SOLUTIONS!

I had to get my booty into the gym at 5:30am this morning, I had to get yesterday’s workout in late in the evening and tomorrow it’s going to be a late afternoon jog. Dinner yesterday was a slow cooked crock pot meak that I put in early in the morning because I knew i wouldn’t have time when I got home and today it may have to be a rotisserie chicken I pick up from the store (breast only) and a salad. Planning and focus….that’s the key(s) to surviving the crazy weeks and the busy holiday season.

Don’t throw in the towel and give up when things get crazy…take action and stay focused on your goals. You’ll never reach them if you let everyday set backs get the best of you. If you need a bit more help, info and inspiration be sure to check out my site. www.lifechanginghealthysolutions.com.

I’m here for ya friend!

Best of Health,

Darlene